Preparation, Punishment & Plenary are ‘the three ‘p’s’’ of professional Corporal Punishment relationships, as they used to be called.
These days, terms such as ‘coaching with discipline’ or ‘mentoring with accountability’ are used… as though there could ever be any meaningful coaching without discipline, or any real mentoring that doesn’t involve a large degree of accountability. I digress.
Each and every time I have to be punished for failure, there is a process which I go through that is immensely helpful even in the most dire of circumstances.
It enables one to cope with the extreme anticipation, rabid discomfort, unbearable pain and the final reprimand that goes with the disciplinary side of coaching and mentoring.
Preparation
Preparation cannot begin in earnest until sentence has been passed, or at least until the recipient is fairly certain that she is to undergo physical chastisement. This is why it is always better for sentence to be passed on one day and the punishment administered on another.
Honourable exceptions include; teachers/coaches/drill sergeants and the like, who use instant ‘encouragement’, in order to better prepare their charges for battle, exams and/or peak performance on the field. This differs slightly from punishment in that it is instantaneous and there is a kind of muscle memory thing going on, whereby strong associations are made between poor performance and pain.
Frequently, the athlete or soldier will be hurting themselves on behalf of their instructor e.g., press-ups, running laps etc. This is not the same as classical punishment as it contains no element of ritual, is universally informal and even if it is six on the buttocks with the gym shoe from your P.E. teacher, then it is administered whilst one is ‘caught in the act’.
“Slacking off on team shuttle-runs? Bend over. Correction dished out and back on with a new and improved attitude towards those lovely shuttle-runs!”
“Failed a weapons drill? 100 press-ups. Go!”
These opportunities for ‘instant feedback’ and ‘encouragement’ aside, real punishment must take place at a later time than sentencing if it is going to be genuinely effective.
The modern world oft fails to allow for important passages of time; however, this really isn’t negotiable. In order to be truly effective, a discipline session - where genuine punishment is to take place - really ought to be scheduled at a date post sentencing.
Contemplation, reflection and, to be frank, the build-up of necessary apprehension is of critical importance.
Not unlike the code of ethics which governs the medical profession whereby consultation and operation must, wherever possible, take place on separate days, so too should sentencing and execution.
This gives both parties room for a period of ‘cooling’, comprehension and preparation. Though it is unlikely your surgeon will change his mind about your operation, there is still that possibility and likewise a patient in need of an operation, (who is well advised to accept it), also has the opportunity to reconsider.
Aside from the time to rationalise any lingering doubts, the separation between sentencing and punishment provides the miscreant with necessary space to pause and reflect upon both her behaviour that has led to the disciplinary action and to thoroughly prepare herself for its painful administration.
Not unlike the champion athlete psyching himself up for an Olympic final, a woman slated for punishment needs this time to come to terms with what will happen to her.
Then, there are also the practical implications of being disciplined to consider.
Such as appropriate clothing for before, during and after punishment. For instance, I always chill down very quickly after being either leathered or caned. This is probably as the blood rushes to the site of the demolition (bottom and thighs); whatever the reason, I sure feel the cold post-discipline and hence I need to have with me warm outer garments such as a sweater or cardigan.
Obviously, your disciplinarian will have agreed with you prior to the administration of your punishment what shall and shall not be worn. For instance, if the bottom is not to be bared, then the type and number of layers permitted will be prescribed.
Some disciplinarians wish to chastise over a pair of briefs, others will ask that you attend your session in a pair of leggings or even a thin pair of trousers.
Punishment ‘on your briefs’ does not mean a G-string, ladies!
In fact, I’ve never met a gentleman disciplinarian who wishes to see a G-string. These garments are not knickers and think about the message you a sending out.
It is wholly unprofessional to turn up to your disciplinary without proper attire, especially if you are to be caned over your knickers.
Most gentlemen will be satisfied with a decent pair of ‘sensible’ white or black cotton briefs and I shouldn’t need to say this but ‘white’ means MIGHTY WHITE, ladies! Not the off-white/greying ‘comfortable’ pair with the baggy elastic - this shows a lack of respect for your disciplinarian and for the disciplinary itself.
Speaking directly from experience, I would not recommend wearing a brand-new pair of briefs for a punishment either. This is because the last thing you want to introduce to what will, for almost all ladies, be the most nerve-wracking experience of your life to date, is another unknown.
Sometimes new underwear doesn’t fit quite right, or takes a few wears and turns through the laundry to properly benefit the owner and whilst being dressed in uncomfortable foundation garments isn’t anything like as awful as the first cane stroke will be, it is an added imposition that one certainly doesn’t need.
Then, there is the LONG journey home to consider.
If you are to be caned, trust me, your journey back from whence you came will be a long one. Oftentimes, one cannot bear to put one’s knickers back on after a proper caning on the bare.
All of this nonsense you see with young ladies ‘rubbing’ away the sting is just that. 100% nonsense!
The cane ‘cuts’ into your skin very deeply and frequently will break some skin in the process. Does one feel compelled to ‘rub’ one’s hand when one slices one’s finger on a sharp knife in the kitchen?
Of course not.
In my extensive experience of being caned, the last thing you will want to do is touch your bottom immediately post-caning.
It will feel lacerated even if no skin has actually fully broken.
Hence, many young ladies travel home ‘commando’, i.e., with their knickers secreted away in the depths of their handbags. Others ‘brave it’ and do force themselves to pull those briefs up and over the raging inferno. If you are likely to fall into that category, you will certainly wish you had brought very comfortable (sensible) undergarments in which to travel home in!
The morning after my first ever caning, my sir refused to allow me the privilege of wearing any knickers and he insisted that I don a pair of jeans to our brunch together. This was to punish me further, he wanted to continue to remind me of what happens when I don’t behave properly and knew full well that those jeans would chafe horribly. Which they did.
I then had to remain that way for the 3-hour drive home. The MOST uncomfortable journey of my life. It did ensure I stayed focussed on the traffic though!
Bottom line; be prepared, think comfort over style and for Heaven’s sake take spares with you, just in case!
Having properly considered clothing for before, during and after punishment there is the important matter of grooming. Whether or not your bottom is going to be bared, the grooming process is enormously helpful. Looking and feeling your best will at least give you the confidence that you have done everything you can to fully prepare for the worst.
Naturally, for those who willingly subject themselves to the added humiliation of accepting discipline on the bare, you will wish to be in no less than immaculate condition as - sorry to state the obvious but - your disciplinarian will see everything, if you have chosen this method.
Personally, I always leave the choice of whether to bare the target area or not, up to my disciplinarian. In each and every professional relationship I have been in, we have made a prior agreement that he, and he alone, will make the decision on a disciplinary-by-disciplinary basis of whether to bare the target or not.
Usually, I am told at the time of sentencing what it is to be; to bare or not to bare, that is the question.
Occasionally, however, I will arrive at a session not certain and so I always ensure I am perfectly well-groomed just in case. There is always a possibility, where prior agreements such as mine have been made, that during a punishment say over the knickers, the disciplinarian may decide to bare the target as an additional imposition based on less than impressive behaviour during discipline (as yet, I haven’t fallen foul of that one), or as an extra punishment for new/more recent offences that would be best taken into account in the moment! (Yes, this one has applied to me, several times!)
The actual process of grooming can be cathartic and it certainly has a steadying influence on me. It is psychologically very advantageous too, in that one is already accepting the discipline. Submitting to physical chastisement is not easy even if you desire to and even if you know it to be the right thing to do.
The fear of physical pain is a strong motivating factor for we mere mortals, that is why torture is so effective. Brutal but effective.
Fully accepting and submitting to punishment is a way in which to lighten the physical burden.
Pain is lessened when one earnestly submits.
The act of grooming is a highly useful step on the way towards total submission to discipline. It is perhaps not unlike the squaddie shining his boots before a court-martial.
Thinking time, plus the familiarity of mundane chores, assists the miscreant in being thoroughly prepared, physically and mentally for the discipline to be received.
It would be remiss of me here to not mention the very real option of fully nude discipline. Though it may surprise one to read this, I do know of several English gentlemen disciplinarians who negotiate just such with their charges prior to entering into an agreement.
They argue that the modern woman is often too full of her own self-importance, (with that, I have to regretfully agree), and that it can be challenging, these days, to assist the lady in getting into the correct headspace for painful consequences.
Stripping completely, when tastefully and respectfully done, does have its place. Being naked in front of your disciplinarian is mortifying. For it is extremely difficult to play ‘high status’ when one has no clothes on.
I am a supremely confident, experienced and successful young lady, so I know only too well how difficult it is to lay down the law to me.
Would I accept discipline fully nude?
Yes.
Have I ever?
Yes.
However, I wasn’t married back then and nor was I in a relationship, so I didn’t have to worry about feeling guilty.
These days, I don’t do anything - not even email another disciplinarian - without the prior permission of my HoH. So, it is highly unlikely that I would come to this kind of agreement with a new disciplinarian now.
Even old arrangements would have to be amended as, in the unlikely event that I secured my HoH’s permission, I wouldn’t feel right and it is terribly, terribly important that you feel ‘right’ about accepting corporal punishment and the manner in which you accept it. No regrets is an absolute must.
Most professional disciplinarians are well able to tame their charges without the need for full, or even partial, nudity.
In any case, this decision must ultimately be made by the disciplinee and at the very outset of the relationship. A decent and proper professional disciplinarian will never pressure anyone on this subject. Options will be discussed, merits assessed and the subject’s decision will be final and binding for both parties.
There are those who argue that baring anything other than the target becomes about more than just discipline and punishment and I have to say that I lean towards that side of the debate.
I can faithfully attest that no disciplinarian has ever needed my nudity in order to carry out his duties. That said, despite being confident and forthright, I still give proper respect, courtesy and compliance to all of my disciplinarians.
If I had to make a judgement call right now; I would say that charges who think they ought to submit to the height of humiliation, (being naked in the presence of a fully clothed disciplinarian), are doing it for deeply personal reasons and ought to carefully think about the whys and wherefores extremely conscientiously before proceeding.
Bottom line is; it is the subject’s call and not one that should be made lightly.
Lastly, ladies, you will naturally want to shower very close to your punishment as your sir will be very much ‘up close and personal’, however, if you make the mistake of showering too close to your disciplinary, then you will only serve to accentuate the sting and if you are new to Corporal Punishment, you will want to minimise the sting for certain!
This is also why one doesn’t want to moisturise one’s posterior too close to discipline. Although moisturiser does serve to better hold the skin together, (you’re less likely to experience broken skin that way), it will make the punishment more painful in the moment and as a novice this is a very bad idea.
If you are an experienced subject or submissive and you know your limits, then by all means moisturise before discipline - let’s face it, if you have a ‘shoot’ in the next few days, then you will want an unblemished posterior.
Us mere mortals, however, are best off accepting a bit of broken skin in order to be able to see the discipline through… especially if you are a first-timer!!
Punishment
If proper preparation has blown your mind, then worry not. In a strange sort of way, the punishment itself is actually the easy bit. Minus the unbearable pain, that is(!)
The reason I suggest that this is the least difficult part for the mentee, is because there isn’t really very much she has to do.
The primary duties of the disciplinee, during punishment, are to;
i) listen carefully
ii) be polite and respectful at all times
iii) comply absolutely with the demands of your disciplinarian
iv) stay down and fully submit to the punishment
The last one, I’ll freely admit is easier said than done. Though if proper care and attention has been paid to all aspects of preparation, then things will be a little easier.
The most striking, edifying and effective disciplinaries that I have experienced all contained the following.
A preliminary discussion/debrief
This is not the same as ‘investigating’ nor is it sentencing, (both of which ought to have taken place at a prior date), the prelim or debrief is the disciplinarian’s opportunity to remind his charge of her shortcomings and the painful consequences of such that are about to be forcefully imparted.
Ladies, this is not the time for a debate, nor is it the place to try and secure a lesser sentence. That moment has long gone. All you should be longing for is the punishment to be over and to not hurt you too terribly.
That’s it.
You oughtn’t need very much more than:
“Yes, sir.”
“No, sir.”
“Thank you, sir.”
There is your script and I strongly suggest that you stick to it. Speak when spoken to, be painfully polite and respectful, and it may go in your favour to cut a contrite figure from the outset.
You are there to be punished. You messed up, nobody else, and you alone are about to be held properly accountable for your actions. It may sound counter-intuitive, but this discipline is something for which you should be eternally grateful. A miniscule fraction of a fraction of one percent of the population have access to and the disposition for this kind of development.
When used correctly it is wondrously powerful. Don’t waste it.
Very occasionally, some Sirs will require their charges to articulate - in full - the offence and the impending punishment, so that it can clearly be seen that the young lady knows perfectly well why she is in such a predicament and precisely what will be coming her way very shortly.
If you’re required to do this; don’t waffle, under no circumstances should you attempt to present what you did wrong in a less bad light and for Heaven’s sake be succinct.
Less is very much more in these situations.
All the charge has left to lose in this moment are three things - pride, respect and dignity. Hold onto those things, they are the only real possessions man needs for the good life.
Again, it would be remiss of me to leave out the more pleasant discussion that may well take place PRIOR to the preliminary discussion/debrief, perhaps down in the bar over a glass of something splendid.
This IS common practice amongst the very best gentlemen disciplinarians, those who have read about my first ever formal adult disciplinary in ‘How it all began’ will know all about this device.
It is especially effective for those mentor/mentee relationships where getting together isn’t a very regular possibility and even for those who are lucky enough to have regular appointments, it serves as a convivial ice-breaker. Believe it or not, even the strictest gentlemen disciplinarians have a heart. They do not want to say ‘good evening’ and then proceed straight to the whipping.
The decent ones want to know how you are feeling, how your day has been and what is going well for you. They also want to share details about their lives and all of this should be most welcome.
A disciplinarian who seeks to take the edge off of your extreme anxiety, as those whom are about to submit to serious discipline will inevitably experience, is a treasure indeed. Drink of his humanity, stay in the moment and try to not dwell too much on your impending punishment. There will be plenty of time for fear and consternation later!
Corner Time
These days, corner time is a much-underrated device. Once again, the modern world robs us of that all-important window of opportunity to reflect and properly come to terms with our immediate fate.
Corner time is a critical period of final reflection. It can cure the ills of the day; maybe you were stuck in traffic or your intended train got cancelled on the way? No young lady wants to be late to a punishment. Fate plays its hand and things do indeed happen, despite the best laid plans of mice and men!
Sometimes one can arrive at a disciplinary in no state to receive discipline due to unforeseen circumstances. Shit happens.
Those disciplinarians who make time to meet, greet and quell your initial anxiety are to be respected and treasured. If you’re not his only engagement that night, then fuck him. He isn’t worth your submission to his discipline. You need your mentor to be entirely focussed on YOU and you alone, especially if you are new to the weird and wonderful world of coaching with corporal punishment. Your development must be vital to both of you and if things take longer than expected so be it. These things should never be rushed.
As a very esteemed colleague of mine says; “… it should be a civilised appointment, hence the glass of wine”. Corporal punishment relationships aren’t about pain and suffering and dominance and submission, they are about genuine professional development, mutual respect and pride. Pride in one’s work and pride in one’s acceptance of pain and suffering where one falls short of agreed standards.
Corner time is a kind of safety net in case travel arrangements have gone wrong or other unforeseen circumstances have caused unnecessary angst. It is also an opportunity to have a moment of separation between a convivial glass of wine, a much-needed face to face with your highly regarded disciplinarian and the real business of the day.
He is there to punish and you are there to accept his discipline.
Corner time is a neat divider between manners, meeting and greeting, socialisation and the very serious business of formal punishment.
A time to gather oneself, refocus on the reason for the visit and to make final preparations for the ultimate… yes, it is going to hurt but at least it will be done by a civilised gentleman and soon it will be over.
Disrobing/Positioning
By the day of the execution of the punishment the disrobing and positioning of the recipient is all but a foregone conclusion.
Almost certainly the young lady will already know whether or not her bottom is to be bared and whether or not she must remove just some or all clothing.
The positioning may still be left to the last minute; will she be bent over a chair, a desk, a knee or the ultimate in terms of submission - toe touching?
Being required to bend double and touch one’s toes is a special kind of subjugation. It is also a special kind of torture if one has failed to stretch out one’s hamstrings beforehand.
Top tip; thoroughly stretching one’s hamstrings before discipline will prevent cramp in the rear chain - a real life saver, so don’t forget!
Your disciplinarian will likely be very specific about disrobing and positioning for punishment, both of these things are more ritual than anything else and both serve to heighten the disciplinee’s awareness of the impending doom.
Go with it, never resist and allow yourself to be dominated absolutely in these moments.
Often positioning will be as much about your safety as it will be about his preferences and your suffering.
It is worth bearing in mind that being asked to stand with one’s legs apart is primarily for stability upon impact rather than anything salacious. Just saying.
Remember, your goal is to get the punishment over and done with as swiftly as possible so anything other than absolute submission at this point is only going to delay matters. It really isn’t worth it.
Pride, dignity and respect above all.
Final, (brief) instructions
These are as wide and as varied as disciplinarians themselves, however if in doubt, here are the main ones. (They’ll be stated or restated immediately prior to the first stroke).
i) no touching the target area (usually buttocks and thighs)
ii) no comforting punished flesh (if it’s done properly you won’t want to anyway)
iii) no straightening - stay down in position during punishment
iv) no attempting to stop or slow the punishment down
v) no blocking or evading punishment
vi) if you are required to count the strokes do so audibly and respectfully
vii) at the end of the punishment stay down until you are given permission to rise
Being required to count the strokes is often a disciplinarian’s way of checking in on you during the thrashing. The vocal cords readily give clues as to one’s state of suffering, so take it seriously, it is more than likely for your benefit.
Be aware that having adopted the position required IS your final consent to be punished. Once that has transpired one can no longer renege on the deal. No matter how much it hurts you have already consented.
Some disciplinarians however, will require you to answer “Yes, sir,” when asked if ready to begin and others will require you to ask politely for the first stroke.
In this day in age, it is not unreasonable for a mentor to require this due to the unfortunate proliferation of the disingenuous types.
Being a high-end disciplinarian is a very precarious position, especially since women en masse decided they were superior to men! (Something I am dead against; I hasten to add).
If being required to ask for the first stroke of a devastating caning seems a bit much to you, please consider the poor gentleman who has had to deal with a disingenuous subject hell bent on causing trouble or merely kicking up an almighty fuss because she has not the intellect nor the decency to atone for her shortcomings. I see these fake subs all the time on social media.
They are not your fault but extend your sir a little latitude when it comes to protecting himself and his reputation. There are some seriously messed up women out there and there’s no manual for how to deal with them legally(!)
Spacing the strokes
During punishment your sir will very likely take his time between devastating strokes. Being caned and especially being caned for the first time is quite the ordeal. It is going to hurt and it is going to hurt a lot.
Remember that it’s supposed to hurt and the reasons why you are having to be chastised in the first place.
Stay humble, the pain is supposed to both punish you for wrong doing and to deter you from the same wrong actions in the future.
It will seem unbearable but if you’re serious about self-development and about the esteem in which you hold your disciplinarian, then you will get through it.
The interminable breaks between each detonation have a wide range of different functions.
Firstly, you should see the gaps as opportunities to catch your breath and regroup. Steady yourself and strengthen your resolve.
As the whipping progresses, the pauses will seem MUCH shorter, this is a sign that you are with a master disciplinarian. He’s judged it about right.
The space between each lash will also furnish you with the full ‘benefit’ of each cut. Pain from the cane (ditto leather) presents as a kind of sine wave, it actually peaks post impact and the second half of the aftermath of detonation is well worth your punisher waiting for.
The wait between each instalment is also a test of your mettle, not to mention your dedication to your goals and to your disciplinarian’s time and efforts.
It would be very easy to get up after just three lashes and call a halt to the devastating proceedings. You can, it is within your rights to do so.
Just don’t expect your sir to work with you ever again.
Punishment is just that.
You mess up, you take your medicine, as prescribed, no matter what. Your disciplinarian’s tests are just, he has a right to put you through it and your only goal ought to be to not disappoint him.
End of physical discipline
This is not your cue to jump up and dress yourself, launching into a monologue of blessed relief.
We all feel like doing it, however that is not the done thing.
Stay down.
Just because you have survived the stipulated number of strokes it does not necessarily mean that you have done so to your mentor’s exacting standards, nor does it mean that your punishment is over.
You may have earned ‘extras’ through ignorance or carelessness and/or your disciplinarian may wish to lecture you whilst uber ‘receptive’ to verbal correction.
Plenary
The plenary, or ‘conclusion’ is a vital part of the disciplinary process.
Some disciplinarian’s will choose to impart their closing remarks on the matter whilst you are still down in position, reeling from the shock of the ordeal and possibly sobbing your heart out.
I find that this is when I am most susceptible to learning from my errors.
The pain in my posterior, the savage damage to my ego and the humbling and precarious position, (he could still conceivably give you ‘extras’ at this point), all contribute to my receptiveness to genuine learning.
Drink in these words as this is the true beginning of your development. That which you hear, internalise and decide to act upon in these moments will drive your growth and crucially keep you out of this painful, humiliating and degrading posture in future.
This will be the final reprimand and you should cherish it. (At least he’s stopped thrashing you, right?!)
Other disciplinarians will require you to observe some more ‘Corner Time’ in order to come to terms with your punishment and to calm you down in the event that you have become emotional. All perfectly normal under the circumstances.
Some gents will not lecture you until after this post-discipline visit to the corner, others will school you whilst you are there.
There are those who skip this final step altogether and once you have been lectured whilst bent double, will let you up and lunge straight into aftercare.
I think this is a mistake.
There is nothing quite like being obliged to spend time with your own thoughts post thrashing. I believe this to be an integral part of the whole process.
Frequently, one’s punished bottom will be on display whilst facing the corner and one may even be required to stand with one’s hands upon one’s head.
This is a piece of pure discipline.
There you are, breathing ragged, buttocks raw, energy depleted and still having to metaphorically bend to the authority of your disciplinarian. It’s almost poetic.
Once ‘released’ from the corner you will be informed that your punishment is concluded and you will feel a million dollars. You lived!
A major endorphin rush will occur and if the session has been played right by both parties you will feel a closer bond between you.
As the subject, you will feel a post-punishment loyalty, gratitude and affection for your disciplinarian and an overwhelming desire to please him and make him proud of your future conduct.
Aftercare
I’m not going to lie but I bloody hate aftercare.
Unpopular opinion: It’s a punishment for crying out loud, why should he hug you?
Assuming you are of sound mind, you will fully understand why you have been punished, what the intend outcomes were and what is expected of you going forwards.
There is absolutely no need for hot water bottles, blankets and cuddles.
Sorry. Not sorry.
Back in the 1950’s after your headmaster had just soundly delivered six of the very best with rattan upon upturned, knicker-clad buttocks he wouldn’t thereafter say to you:
“Come here, James, let’s have a hug.”
Much more likely it would be:
“Get up and straighten your attire, James. I have entered your name into the punishment book and I do not expect to see it there again. Now, get yourself back to class and don’t let me find you here again, else it will be double.”
If a child in the 1950’s can take it, a bloody grown up in the 2020’s can.
Grow up ladies and gentlemen, this aftercare thing is a load of old codswallop.
If one has been seriously psychologically affected by a bit of old-school, proper discipline, then perhaps one oughtn’t be partaking?
Does the drill sergeant cuddle the squaddies he’s just punished for piss-poor performance on the square? Does he? I must have missed that part of basic training.
No, punishment does not have to be followed by kisses, cuddles and warm blankies - this is an invention of generation snowflake, I’m afraid.
Remuneration
Instead of indulging in snowflake aftercare why not buy your disciplinarian dinner to show him your gratitude for his efforts at keeping you on the strait and narrow?
Some gentlemen disciplinarians absolutely refuse to take payment for their mentoring or for their time and so the least one can do is pay for his dinner!
I’m a stickler for respecting the time of others, especially of those who teach, tutor, mentor and/or coach.
These people frequently give up large amounts of their free time to make sure you don’t screw up and many of them do not take appropriate remuneration for their time and expertise.
Whipping your backside isn’t a divine privilege, no matter how delectable your bottom is and even if you are Aphrodite herself, it isn’t good manners to assume that the occasional carving up of your backside is reward enough!
For those of us who cannot accept mentoring and coaching without corporal punishment, (because it doesn’t work for us), it is vitally important that we look after the gentlemen disciplinarians that we do have and properly.
99.9% of coaches and mentors would be totally useless to me.
As I know I need the rare ones who are willing to take risks for students wired such as I am, I always aim to surprise and delight.
An appropriate book choice, a hearty dinner out, and/or a bottle of something splendid are all ways of showing one’s appreciation, whilst at the same time offering ‘payment (or remuneration) by stealth’.
Conclusion
Preparation, Punishment & Plenary are the three vital elements of all successful disciplinaries.
As you can see, it is all in the preparation. If one is thoroughly prepared, then at least one has the comfort of knowing that everything that could have been made ready, has been.
Whilst the punishment itself is always tough, your disciplinarian will see you through it. He will also sternly redirect you if your behaviour during discipline is less than adequate.
So long as you listen carefully, remain polite, respectful and compliant, all will be well.
Listen intently to the plenary and use the pain, discomfort and your new found humility to help you to remember what you are going to do better in the future.
Use the final moments of reflection to make plans for the immediate future. How will you ensure that you are not back here anytime soon?
If stuff goes wrong and you are sentenced to corporal punishment again, fall back on your experience. How could you have better prepared last time? What went in your favour then? Can you repeat that? Also, what didn’t go so well during your first experience of discipline and how will you put that right now?
The more times you are put through formal discipline, the more will be expected of you in terms of conduct, performance and effort.
When all else fails, remember this; “Prior Planning and Preparation Prevents Piss-Poor Performance.”
The British Army call it the ‘7P’s’ and this combined with the ‘3P’s’ of Professional Corporal Punishment will see you just about right.
Jacqui James
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Absolutely excellent advice to both those new to and experienced in being punished. Also for both new and very experienced disciplinarians. As one of the latter I found it both confirming and to some extent enlightening.
I must say that your section on 'after care' made me chuckle!
May I point out a grammatical 'howler' in your section/recommendation for underwear (or lack of) to travel home in after punishment where you suggest the well disciplined lady will "wish you had brought very comfortable (sensible) undergarments in which to travel home in!" Obviously this is the kind of grammar 'up with which I will not put'! :-P
Thank you very much!